PLease help me?

Ok here's the story for a long as i could remeber my dad hasn't really been there but around age 3 i started getting to know him at first i wa mad at him for leaving me and and my mom. but then i stopped being mad and forgot about it but then around age 5 i learned about how my dad had so many girlfriend most of which he's had childern with.I wasn happy to have brothers and sister but then he had so many it wa unbelivable ivr got at least 10-13 siblings.Now u may think that thats not so bad this i worse my dad broke up with his recent girlfriend and got with a new one the old one tried to fight my mom thinking i was comeing bettween her and my dad anyway his recent girlfriend hes been with for more than five years now my dad only 30 so hes young but he been cheating on his new girlfriend with his old one and the new is the one i like because i think she can change my dad because he drink,he smoke,and he sells dope,and the girl he cheating with every one thinks has an std.help im 12 .|||That's too bad that you have to go through this, But sometimes this kind of situations will make you a better person when you grow up, Hopefully you won't be as irresponsible as your dad. (sorry but is the true). He's irresponsible with his relationships and with you and you shouldn't have to deal with that. If you ever feel like talking to someone about this situation or feel depressed, call the 1-800 SUICIDE ( 784-2433) line, They can help you deal with this. Best of luck buddy.|||detachment.


deatch from his problems and focus on your own


:) sory you had to go through this all. i was shocked wen i read you were 12.


focus on you


things will get better


good luck|||dang kid dont take on so much at one time....





i dont know if ur a religious person... but as we muslims say... allah will guide u to the right path, everything happens for a reason.... you should help ur dad but try to focus on ur life and get as far as you can in life so ur kids will have a better dad than urs... and you can be there for them... but u sound like a pretty smart kid, i couldnt believe ur were twelve when i read the story.... i hope everything turns out great for you, i think you'll do okay.... i will pray for you....^_^














omg, talk to her more, she sounds sweet and i think she'll stay, talk to ur dad too, tell him he's got a choice.... if she's ur stepmom u should leave with her and give ur dad some time to think, i betcha he'll come around...|||aww im so sorry i turned 14 but idk if i can help im sorry you had to grow up with this in your life your dad needs to grow up and realize what he is doing and get his life straight if ya need anything just email meh im sorry about all this aww this just makes me sad|||Do not kill yourself over your dad.If you want to help him you get close to GOD and PRAY for him because GOD is his ONLY hope son.If your dead, you cant do that.


Also tell your dad(in a letter) that you love him but that your ashamed of his behavior, he is irresponsible, and has wasted his life and hurt a lot of people INCLUDING ALL his children.


Tell his girlfriends they are stupid for fighting over a guy who will NEVER commit to ANY of them when they are fighting to throw themselves at him to get him into bed.